I do thank you guys for all your help throught this, but i dont have the back bone to make these guys do a good job, im met with blank stares and and reactions that are about as expected for a young man with minimal automotive education.. i will continue my search for a more specialized or passionate shop, i have just been failed one too many times.
as others have stated before and even my dad, i need to stop being an arrogant son of a bitch and complaining about the system, and acquire the education and tools to fix this stuff and other things myself, but currently i am no fabricator, and i hate (some) engineers XD
The inner tie rods will be replaced by myself or i will insist the shop does it and related parts like the rack bushings, and outers. I do hope that this is the end of the thread and the only thing ill have to look forward to after is shitty brakes, rust prevention, and paint, then the go fast stuff
until something else suspension/ steering wise wants to say hello
I planned on doing cat back exhaust months ago as one of the first true mods. The company selling the kit failed me while a shop within an hour drive was ready to weld it up.
I planned on having this car riding good with little to no play months ago and the shop/aftermarket has failed me.
I just need to stop rambling and buy a wider range of sockets, and specialized tools, and then i need to make all the mistakes these

techs have because im curious how someone with the actual education managed to get this far.